Monday, July 04, 2005
my 'yi po' passed away on 30/6.. reali shocked to hear tis new.. heard my mom say she's in hospital for almost a mth but we dint noe anitink until my dad saw my aunt.. at night, we went to c her at the hospital.. she's in coma when we were there.. so she dint noe anitink.. the nxt mornin, we received a cal frm my aunt sayin tat my 'yi po' passed away last nite at ard 3+.. omg!! luckily we went to c her for the last time.. we were all veri sad to hear tat..
as i hv to work, i dint go to d wake tat dae.. i went on sat nite.. saw lots of relatives whom i hv nv c b4.. all of them looked veri veri sad n most of them are cryin.. everyone is tryin to console each other..
the wake last for 5 daes.. though i hv attended wake b4, but not my relative.. its the 1st time which i hv attended a whole wake for a relative..
i took a half dae leave on 4/7 to send her off.. i reach d pl ard 12+.. n its quite crowded.. i hv to pin green n red cloth on d shirt.. i duno wat does it represent.. my mom ask mi to pin, i pin lorz.. everythink its so blur n i duno anitink abt d procedures.. ard 1+, d ceremony started.. its veri noisy due to the drums n all.. but hv to torate.. d whole ceremony last ard an hr or so.. so ard 3, d coffin was lifted n put in d van to send to 'guang ming shan' for cremation.. we all cried.. its reali veri sad.. sobz sobz... d coffin is bein pushed into d burner n gone.. it jus happened too fast.. every1 is like stil cryin n d coffin is gone!!
life is like tat.. in d blink can happen alots of tinks.. we shld learn hw to treasure life n the loved ones beside us.. or else wil b too late...
germaine
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